The Face-to-Face experience: As an IJL client, we guarantee you will go out on dates. It's Just Lunch recognizes that each of our clients is unique, and that their attributes, experiences and life goals shape the type of relationship they are looking for. Because that’s the only way to tell if there’s chemistry. Our IJL certified matchmakers create a dating experience personalized just for you. Date, time, where you go." We treat you as a person, not a website profile.That’s actually the preferred situation, because then you have multiple sets of eyes confirming that this person is who they appear to be.
Or, a couple may be “in a relationship” for a decade, finally get married, and then split up in the first year.It really depends on the people involved, and the reasons why they get married when they do. Most people realize that you shouldn’t get married too quickly after meeting someone, and the one long-term study I’ve found on the subject seems to back that up.There are a couple of reasons why a short dating period can cause problems in marriage: Marriage is really about commitment, so the real question is whether you are willing to commit to this person for the rest of your life, and whether you can trust them when they say they’re willing to do the same. Now, sometimes you can trust them more quickly if other trustworthy people have known the person through close community for a long time, and can vouch for them.I get the opportunity to be direct and ruthlessly honest without getting into trouble for it.I love the expression on my clients face when I show him everything he’s been doing wrong.