Intelligent men dating
This isn’t me telling you what men are looking for. He’s worked considerably hard to be a person of quality, character, substantial intelligence and he’s pretty cute. I’m no matchmaker but you shouldn’t have to settle when the men you’re looking for are also looking for you! That’s a really great question, one that I will answer tomorrow.This is a MAN telling you what men are looking for. Do you think this woman exist or are these qualities unrealistic?Recently a friend of mine tagged me in Facebook in a note, one of my least favorite things.
Successful men are romantically interested only in their secretaries.
“[Men faced in this real life scenario] distanced themselves more from her, tended to rate her as less attractive, and showed less desire to exchange contact information or plan a date with her”.
While the authors behind the study caution that more experimentation may be needed to confirm the conclusion, they do believe that “feelings of diminished masculinity accounted for men’s decreased attraction toward women who outperformed them.” Who knew masculinity could be so fragile?
The findings, to be published in the November edition of ‘Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin’, concluded that men find the propect of dating intelligent women intimidating.
The study, carried out by researchers the University of Buffalo, California Lutheran University and University of Texas, Austin, posits that men’s attraction to certain traits in women can be directly affected by how realistic a romantic prospect their potential lover is.